Feeling like a victim to your husband’s porn use?
Wondering if it’s possible to repair your marriage?
Feeling committed to your husband but confused about what his porn use means for you?
Wondering what’s real and not real in your marriage?
Heal from the emotional wounds that tend to come after finding out his past or present porn use.
Know in your bones that his actions have NOTHING to do with you, your beauty, worth, and lovability.
Find strength and clarity for yourself, and your marriage.
Rise up, discover, and step into the energy of the incredible woman that you already are.
This can happen whether he’s stopping, stopped, or not stopping his behavior.
So many women find themselves confused as to why they don’t want physical intimacy as much as their husband. 🙇🏼♀️
In this confusion they may blame themselves for various reasons—which is totally normal given conditioning from media, etc over decades of time—it makes a difference on how we view and treat ourselves.
Tune in to our most recent podcast to see what the key is to deeper intimacy.
The more you understand, the less likely you are to judge yourself for how you’re showing up in your marriage.
This episode is a “must listen!”
🌿(Tap link in bio, then podcast, subscribe, and voilà!)
Xxx,
Lindsay
You know that feeling before a vacation where you wonder “How in the world am I going to get everything done before leaving?”
That’s where I’ve been this week.
We are coming to the states for 2 MONTHS.
Yes, there’s a lot to do.
And yes, I took my self-judgment, guilt, and overwhelm to a new level (more than once).
And yes, thank the lucky stars, I have support.
Because I said yes to coaching—I feel like this elite athlete surrounded by an incredible team of professionals—but for my brain.
It feels amazing.
🏋🏻♂️+🧠=💪🏻🤙🏻👌🏻🙌🏻
I want you to know that wanting help doesn’t mean something is wrong with you.
It actually may mean that something is RIGHT with you.
You can hate your marriage right now, and want to feel less trapped.
You can like how things are going, and want more.
You can love your life, and also want more.
Our desire is God-given. ✨
Don’t be afraid to tap into it, whether it’s with professional support or not.
Xxx
Sometimes the “nicest thing” we can do is honor our intuition and say “No.”
Even when others don’t get it.
Even when people think we’re mean.
Let them be wrong about you.
First of all, if you can guess where this is, leave a comment!
Secondly….
Your dreams today are based on your current paradigm.
As you evolve, so can they.
Ten years ago if someone would have stopped me and said: “You could be living in France with your family,”
I would have laughed in their face because my paradigm was “help husband get through dental school, then settle down for life.”
Whatever paradigm you live in today, it can shift over time (if you want it to).
I want you to know that it is 100% ok to want more for your life—for any reason.
You can learn how to create and live a life you want, DESERVE, and are 100% worthy of receiving.
A life better than your wildest dreams.
As for today: What inch can you grab differently that will open up more varied and evolved inches tomorrow, and the next tomorrow, and beyond?
Just a little PSA for anyone out there that needs it (I am here for you!)💕
This applies to everything, btw.
But if you needed to hear it from another human, “permission granted.”
Xxx
Do you ever look at young children and delight over the way they use their bodies?
They use their body to express happiness, release pain, all the things.
They use their little bodies to create joy for themselves in so many ways.
👀Mirrors? Amazing.
👅Food? Delicious.
👣 Standing on scales and watching numbers go up and down? FUN.
🫁 Beach time? Heaven. On. Earth.
What do you tell yourself when you see a picture or look in the mirror?
To say ‘your self-talk matters’ is a gross understatement.
So . . . if you’re not loving your body right now, why?
When did not loving your body become the norm for you?
What if . . . loving your body is more natural than the torture we put ourselves through via self-objectification day after day, year after year, and decade after decade? 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏻♀️
What would it take for you to love what is?
I want you to know that loving your body again is 100% possible.
And it has nothing to do with what other people are saying, looking at, doing, or not doing.
It has nothing to do with the scale, the mirror, what you’re wearing or seeing.
It has everything to do with that brain of yours. 🧠
If you’re stuck in this,
And I can help you.
Xxx