Are you tired of

Feeling like a victim to your husband’s porn use? 

Wondering if it’s possible to repair your marriage?

Feeling committed to your husband but confused about what his porn use means for you? 

Wondering what’s real and not real in your marriage? 

I'll show you how to

Heal from the emotional wounds that tend to come after finding out his past or present porn use. 

Know in your bones that his actions have NOTHING to do with you, your beauty, worth, and lovability.

Find strength and clarity for yourself, and your marriage.

Rise up, discover, and step into the energy of the incredible woman that you already are.

This can happen whether he’s stopping, stopped, or not stopping his behavior. 

Client breakthroughs

the latest

Sometimes when we’re thinking about hiring a coach we want our husbands to “approve” before we make any firm decisions.  

I get it. Who doesn’t love getting a 👍🏼 from the man you adore, are committed to, and who sometimes brings in more benjamins?  

Here’s the thing.  

When it comes to coaching, it’s not his job to believe in you more than you believe in yourself. 

You know who’s job that is?  

It’s mine.  

This comes easily to me. This is what I do on the daily.  

I’ve seen enough people turn their dreams into reality to know that if they have the desire I can get them there. 

I help people like you fill your “belief voids” so that your husbands don’t have to (this could be a whole other post 😎).  

So if you’re thinking about getting a coach and just wishing he’d bet on you . . .  

Maybe you can be the one to go ALL IN ON YOURSELF this time. 

EVEN when it feels like no one else will.  

EVEN when you’re worried about what others will think, or that you might fail.

EVEN when you feel like a burden. 

Got Qs? 

Dm me to chat.  


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Tired of your problems❓ 

A client of mine stopped worrying about her husband all the time and earned 5+ figures in one month in her business. 

She then had some different things to think about: some DIFFERENT problems. 

I asked her “Is it fun to have some new problems?” 

She laughed and said “yes.” 

So if you’re tired of the same dance with your husband, where he does one thing [insert thing that drives you 😰😡], and you do the next [insert your regular reaction here] thing over and over . . . 

What if you could  
1️⃣ hire a coach  
2️⃣ change YOUR dance and  
3️⃣ get some different problems? 

Yes, problems may always be around, but man.  

Having different ones to look forward to can be oddly exciting. 

Want more? 

Tap the link in bio and listen to our latest podcast on “Getting New Problems.” 

Want to dig in a little more? 

Tap the link in bio and then the “Solve Any Problem” for a great starter guide.

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When I took hold of the reins of my life, 

I honored myself like never before. 

I was primed for growth—regardless of whether my spouse was on board.  

This was not abandonment. 

This was me, saving myself. 

This was me, babysitting my own brain 

Instead of vainly trying to babysit him. 

Which, in essence, was one of the best gifts I’ve ever given myself—and perhaps even him (@dannypoelmancoaching will have to chime in for himself😉 )! 

And what I found was that I always had a hold of these reins. 

I had just become acutely aware of this power. 

This awakening was the pivot point that forever changed my life. 

Have you had your realization yet? If so, when was that moment for you?

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I would have NEVER made it to this ‘bucket list’ place if I wouldn’t have given myself permission to WANT to come here. 

It’s one of those places that’s “out of the way, inconvenient, takes more planning, time, money, and energy” to make it happen. 

And yet . . . . I’m so glad that I allowed myself to WANT THIS. 

Even with all of that, I basked in the anticipation of coming here, and it ended up being one of our favorite village visits ever. 

In our personal lives, what if we took our wants more seriously?  

What if it’s ok to WANT something even if it doesn’t feel convenient to yourself or dare I say (gasp) your husband?  

Years ago I wanted to find relief and peace around my circumstances of my husband not working due to mental illness.  

I decided there HAD TO BE MORE than general apathy and acceptance around this circumstance. 

I told my brain there had to be more—that I WANTED more—and I found more.🧠 

🌿I found more peace regardless of what he was doing or what he had done.  

🌿I noticed less fear around the future and things I can’t control. 

🌿I was able focus and freedom understanding the things I can control in the present moments. 

All because I decided it was OK to WANT MORE. 

In our latest podcast episode we dial into the Why’s of not wanting more versus Why wanting more can actually be one of the most loving acts we provide ourselves (go to link in bio if you want to hear more). 

So my friend, if you gave yourself permission to want anything without limitation today, what would it be?

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