Why is it that we are willing to do anything for our kids to set them up for success, but, at times, maybe without even realizing it, we are unwilling to do that for ourselves? If our children are struggling in school we will get them tutors. If they want to learn a sport we take them to practice/lessons. If they need something, we will find the resources for them, because we want the best for them.

Let’s become aware of how we may be holding ourselves back in some very important ways. What is the disconnect in finding help that could better our life quality? In this episode Danny and Lindsay explore what holds us back from seeking help, paying for help, being open to new approaches, or even working on areas in our lives that we want to improve in. They break down what are some mental barriers people tend to face and how to find what actually works for you.

Lindsay and Danny Poelman are certified life coaches and are members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Danny helps guys to stop looking at pornography (and be happy about it) and make their real life and/or marriage what they want it to be. Lindsay helps women let go of the fantasy marriage that doesn’t exist and create the marriage of their dreams in real life.

Listen to the full episode HERE.